"VALIDATION" "UNKOWN" "EVERYONE"

                                                                      

When is enough, enough? When do you reach a point where your past can no longer dictate your future. As you get older time becomes more precious; no one knows the value of something until they are about to lose it or its already gone. This thing they call life is not taken serious by anyone until it comes to losing. This journey that everyone has to take STARTS OFF THE SAME FOR EVERYONE. We may carry feelings for things, but some people do not even know why they harbor these feelings. We hold on to the wrong feelings and hold grudges because being bitter is easier than being happy. You have to come to your point, where you have had enough and be ready to find your way. Nothing will ever be the same after that point but many do not reach that point. Most people feel as if they are damed if they do or don't, that people are going to judge regardless. Some claim that they are not worried about what people say or think about them, but what people think affect them in more ways than they can speak.


Everyone needs "validation" from someone. What you were taught, told, shown, or exposed to is what usually influence your life and the direction you take yourself. When someone has ideas about a new business, investment, car, making music or any other life decisions to make they always speak to someone about it. 99.99% of the time their choices they make are based on the opinions and thoughts of another person they spoke to. If that person did not believe in that idea that was being told the person will not be sure about the direction to go with their decision making. At that point they find another person who will tell them, that they see their potential, idea and direction, and that the person should proceed with it. This is not a bad thing because sometimes everyone needs that one person to believe in them and push them to go for their dreams. In life we spend so much time worrying about what hasn't worked, thinking what might work but never actually trying to move forward to what may actually be the right decision and choices. Most live in the past because they fear the factor of the "unknown", the fact that they do not know what to look forward to next. To me that is the best part of life because that is the main reason why it is a journey so i say look forward not backward and put a smile on and tell your future you are ready for what ever is coming and start making your strides to your future.