"Controversy"

The life is so exciting. No one thinks about repercussions for their actions. All they think about is the life they are living, but when judgement is cast by another they are unable to bare it. Judgements are mostly cast in the black community. We are not taught to look at ourselves in a positive way. We are taught to look down on ourselves. We live no different from any other race but yet we treat one another as if we aren't anything good. What do you want your legacy to say about you? 

All the races are more judgmental now more than before, and that is due to the judgements that black people cast on everyone. So now it is being adapted everywhere. With the indian people the judgment that was cast, was the way of living the lower class who had to do the filthy work verses the middle and the upper class. You can find that here and every where else in the world. Now as their children become more adaptive on the american lifestyle, their family is becoming a bit more judgmental of the way their children choose to live their lives. As blacks we judge everything a person does, the way they look, their jobs, the size of their homes, the car someone drives, their hairstyles, their toe nails, eye brows, the color of each others skin etc. Even though at the end of the day we are all still black people with different shades to everyone outside of our community. If less judgment is cast maybe we can learn to appreciate one another as a people instead of individuals who are amongst each other. 

  
 Society is so messed up that these days it is okay to use skin lightening chemicals to become lighter. Which is something that is now out of control because it has become an epidemic. no one is quiet happy with themselves and the way they were born. White people are tanning to become darker and black people are lightening their skin to become lighter. This is something that i definitely to do understand and i am not sure i ever will. Main stream black women are a big part of this issue not all of them but a few woman i notice has being indulging in this activity such as Beyonce, Nicki Minaj and Rihanna one minute these ladies are of a darken complexion and another minute they are lighter than some Albino people. This skin lightening is also big in Africa and Jamaica; this has become an issue and no one is really trying to address it. Children are taught not by what their parents teach them but by the influence they see around them and what society shows them.  

  
There are so many things that plague our communities and no rely speaks about it. The jewish girls get their rhino plastic surgery from the age of 9. Breast augmentation is also now an epidemic to boost someone's self esteem because the white people want to be more busty like the black woman. Altering your body under a knife is a new trend and it is not only affecting the white community these days it has also spread to every other community your regular beauty is no longer good enough. Now you have to fit into societies beauty. Natural self esteem is no longer in existence everyone has to under go harsh criticism and life altering changes to be accepted in to this world in which no one is here to stay we are all just passing through on a journey.